A Simple Switch to Reduce the Lasting Impact of COVID-19 Stress

Last updated: 05-11-2020

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A Simple Switch to Reduce the Lasting Impact of COVID-19 Stress

"It’s like everyone in the world has just downed three strong coffees, and then expected ourselves to keep calm and carry on, sanely parenting, working, and everything else on our to-do list." Vicki Evans, Mind Body Coach

Does this sound familiar? COVID-19 has taken its toll on all of us and parents, in particular,

have had a particularly difficult road. Our usual support mechanisms have been taken away from us; our sanity time away from our children is almost non-existent; we're trying to balance work, home schooling, financial worries, bored and anxious children. It's a lot! Of course we are feeling more stressed than usual and feelings of uncertainty are through the roof. Are you being compassionate towards yourself, or are you expecting to be able to function at 110 percent as you usually do?

Mind Body Coach, Vicki Evans, one of our expert contributors here at Parent Like You, has written a fantastic article for us on how we can use a simple switch to reduce the lasting impact of all of this COVID-19 related stress.

She reminds us that even in these unprecedented and stressful times we can still use our values as a guide to see us through.

I hope you find this article as useful as I did.

You’re not the only one feeling like these two unwanted companions just won’t leave you alone.

In amongst juggling all the things — children in one hand, work in another, many of us are also facing unprecedented stress and uncertainty due to what’s happening in the world. Perhaps there’s the risk of job loss. Of financial uncertainty. Or you’re simply nervous that our supermarkets are going to run out of food.  

It’s perfectly normal that you’re riding a rollercoaster of emotion.

If you’re anything like me, you’re a little worried about the lasting impact of this strange phase of life on your wellbeing. Not to mentioned, concerned about how your kids will fare with their parents’ stress levels suddenly through the roof. 

COVID-19 and all that comes with it amps up our stress levels because it feels like a particularly novel threat. It’s unpredictable and outside our control. And, we’re all feeling it. So our collectiveexperience of stress is amped up too. It’s like everyone in the world has just downed three strong coffees, and then expected ourselves to keep calm and carry on, sanely parenting, working, and everything else on our to-do list.

All we need to do is consciously bring our attention to what isinside our control.

Of course, there’s less that fits that category right now than usual. We’re locked down in our houses, we can’t do many normal things we’re used to, and our kids are with us round the clock.

Here are a few examples to get you thinking.

One thing within my control during lockdown is…

I encourage you to choose one thing and write it down. And then, remind yourself of it.  brains are wired to focus on what’s going wrong, not what’s going right. So train your brain to do the opposite — and start paying more attention to what you cancontrol right now. Remind yourself of it each morning, and anytime you’re feeling powerless. You are literally doing your mind, body and family a favour for the long run.

Mind Body Coach, Vicki Evans, specialises in helping people find lasting relief from chronic stress and overwhelm and is also a devoted step-mum.

Vicki is on a mission to say no to hustle culture, and support people to prioritise themselves and their wellbeing so they can live intentionally. Vicki works with clients through one to one life coaching, leadership and resilience coaching, and her Purpose-Driven Productivity online course.


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